I have been deciding whether or not to delete this blogspot. I just do not have the time to put it on my priorities. I just keep hesitating hoping I will have this magical time slot appear in my day when I have absolutely nothing to do except...blog. Today is one of those days. Actually, I am putting off housework and Thayen is watching his Veggietales Pirates movie for live the thousandth time.
As most of you know a TON has happened since my last entry. Namely one HUGE happening--the birth of our gorgeous daughter, Luella Verona Treto, on February 15. Woo-hoo! She's already two months old! I feel like it was just yesterday when she was born. I have been asked to write a little about the birth, so to start it was such a wonderful blessed experience, as with the arrival of any anticipated bundle of joy. I had her at home in our living room in a birthing tub. I'm planning on doing it this way, Lord willing, with the rest of our children to come (who knows how many...). The labor began on Saturday with contractions anywhere 8 to 20 minutes apart ALL DAY LONG! We thought for sure our blessed baby would come on Valentine's, but I continued to labor all night (sleeping between contractions) and throughout the next day. They really began to pick up around 6 pm Sunday evening. I was on my feet all day long. Every time I found myself sitting or laying down during a contraction, I was in much more pain. So I paced around our living room and stopped and rested on Tim's shoulder or leaned on the arm of the couch to "relax" through the contraction. The midwife arrived somewhere around 9 pm and I was only dilated to a 4--bummer. So more pacing and an hour later I dilated to a 5, which was wonderful news this meant I got to spend the rest of my labor in the nice warm tub full of water. Plus the contractions were getting a great deal stronger. The rumors are true: water takes away much of the pain. It was soothing, but certainly did not take the hard part of labor away. I kept asking myself in my head, "What am I doing to myself?" & saying things like "I am going to die..." etc. At 11:20 pm on the dot my water broke and it felt like I had to take one ginormous poo and my body began to push the baby out on its own. The midwife kept telling me to stop pushing and it actually took more of my effort to restrain my body than to actually push when I was supposed to. So I had another contraction and out came baby's head. One more contraction and I pushed baby all the way out at exactly 11:28 pm. Easy peasy---yeah right. But it did go pretty smooth. I won't lie there is nothing I can say to describe that horrible sensation when baby's head is halfway out (and you are like stretched "down there" to the MAX!) and you are told to stop pushing. What?! But then there is absolutely no other feeling on the earth that you get when that baby is in your arms and you have this incredible sense of relief flood your entire body and you enter some sort of other-earthly realm. I did it! Praise God--He helped me through the entire thing! Then to hear, "It's a girl!" I wanted to cry for joy, if I had had anything left in me to muster the energy for tears. It was just awesome. Just awesome.
We had her name, Luella, chosen right after we were married. I had a dream we had a boy and a girl and the girl's name was Luella. I woke up and told Tim and he really liked that name. So we took it as a sign from God. Luella is a combo of two names Lou (meaning warrior) and Ella (meaning torch or bright light). The name Verona came after I had a miscarriage. We received a prophetic word that the Lord would grant us victory through this circumstance. So we knew we had to have a name meaning victory. Verona not only means victory in Greek but it means truth in Italian. And it is simply a beautiful name. A beautiful name for a beautiful blessing.
So there you go.
More later on life with Lulu & little Mr. two-year-old T. Right now I've got to get cleaning. In-laws will be here in 3 hours!!

In labor Sunday morning.

In labor a few hours before birth (I know...nice socks!)

The kiddie pool

Seconds old. Tim was by my side the whole time--what a wonderful man.
Wiped!

Thayen meets Luella in the morning.

3 comments:
what a precious story Kaila! I sure have missed you and keeping up with the Tretos on the blog! I hope you get more time to keep us updated! It will slow down a little bit as she gets older, i'm finding with Megs. Once they start playing together you get a little more time for yourself, so to speak.
Love you guys and we really need to have you guys over for dinner so I can get my baby fix! : )
hey kaila,
We havcen't seen you in forever (other then working hard out in your backyard:)) but I asked Heather how you were a few weeks ago and she told me about your little arrival. She is beautiful! I have to give you props for the home birth. I would be tempted if I wasn't such a worrier and I hadn't had a c-section with Emery. Have you seen The Business of being Born? Very interesting movie and make me want to try natural child birth. Anyway, congratulationS and I love the name! :)
Sounds incredible and it is
great to hear gods blessing being
poured out on your lives.
take care shell
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